Friday, August 12, 2011

Am I being bullied in the workplace?

You are not being bullied, you just have a b*tch for a boss. Document everything that is a violation of company policy and turn that into her boss along with a letter signed by you and most of your coworkers describing her attitude and the work environment it creates.

Bathroom issues with cat on 9hr flight?

Yes use the dog carrier your cat could get sick holding it in so long also cats get pretty stressed during long travel so you have to make it as comfortable as possible try and make sure the carrier is big enough for some of his toys you may want to bring him on board with you if possible and sneak him into the bathroom so you can change the pad calm him and give him treats when necessary if he needs to be under make sure hes comfortable and has plenty of food and water

Being Harassed and Stalked?

I am being victimized by psychological harassment and "cause stalking". Not on-line (yet anyway) Been researching this online and don't know where to write, call for help. Can't go to the authorities because they do not acknowledge that it exists. Asking for any help, info available...I'd like to save my life!!!

Is building blocks a game or is it a scholastic tool, and how does that work?

since you're above and beyond what is scholastic, I think you built the blocks just to say that you love me. *waves wildly back*

Am I Too Tall for Heels?

Hello, I'm 14 and a half, turning fifteen on August. I'm 5'9. Am I too tall for heels? I bought these beautiful leather wedges (4-5 inches) I'm not sure. I liked the way it elongated my legs, but now that I bought it, I can't seem to wear it in public. I'm scared people might think I'm some kind of freak? Do you think I shouldn't wear something that high? Would people laugh at me when they see me? I'm really conscious about my height and I realized buying the heels was a big mistake, since all I could think about now is how much of a giant I'd look if I wear them. I mean, should I or should I not wear them? Sorry for this question; just thought I'd let it out. It's been bothering me for awhile. PS: Don't answer if you have nothing nice to say. Have a nice day!

How much can I sell this left handed golf set for?

20-30 bucks. try craigslist .. I would ask for $50 and come down if you had to. Those are not exactly quality namebrand clubs and its less than half a set.

Psychiatry is based on mental and social well being of us and others. Please read below.?

In India, people talk only to those who are beneficial to them. No problem. But now, a practice has become common in India - People form groups and no matter how their actions effect others, people in group victimise economically weak or innocent people. Eg: Neighbours 200 to 250 houses forcing a person to build lenter to make floor for their room, asking person to vacate as he/she is not giving them space in his/her lawn to park their car, asking him/her to go as person said no when they demanded money for temple construction etc. So according to psychiatry, person does not have social well being and is thus mentally ill. Is psychiatry correct in this regard? Is it trustable?

Does NOW really have the audacity to claim that the gender bias in the legal system is against women?

i'm too lazy to look up what NOW is but if it's a feminist organization then you can't believe anything they say

Isn't there Lawyers to help a Mentally Challenged young woman with custody case for her newborn with ex boyfri?

DDD should be helping or directing. If you were asked to leave, then you must of been speaking out of turn. Making the judge mad, other wise anyone can sit in on hearings, unless their closed to the public. IF what I just said is true, then YOUR probably the one who hurt your own daughters chances.

CPS investigation questions, please help?

Request a different cps officer. Preferably a male, because men go by intelligence where women are based upon emotions. If they deny it, place a complaint with cps, or find yourself a good lawyer.

My rapist is about to get out of jail?

Hi, my dad victimized me from the age of 8 until 12. He molested me repeatedly and inevitably raped me... A few years later I could not deal with the agony any more and so I reported it. With no physical evidence he was sentenced to 6 yrs in Prison and lifetime registry as a sex offender... I do not think he will 'come after me' but I am worried how I will be able to deal with knowing he is out on the prowl again... Any one out there ever expierence this??? How do I deal with it? Thanks so much! (I am 21 now)

How can I plug an hdmi cable into my xbox??? (read below)?

So I got an xbox 360 slim and on the main power plug (or something) there is a plastic tab that covers the hdmi cable slot... So I did some searching an a couple of people suggested that I remove the plastic cover on the main plug so that the tab doesn't cover the hdmi slot... So I did, but when I try to turn it on with both the main plug and the hdmi cable in the xbox the tv screen just stays black and nothing happens... So I took off the hdmi cable and turned the power on and the xbox worked fine... Help!

How to have high self- esteem when your whole life has been a misery?

absolutley heart breaking bro. I was bullied also when i was growing up, but not to your extent. But what helped me get out of my depression was a hobby. I started dancing and before you know it i was cured. I do suggest you do something that lets you express your emotions. maybe be a song writer, dancer, or poetry writer. You have alot of emotions to express, so use it to your advantage bro. turn this negative into a posative. You were talking about having no self esteem. that was me 3 years ago. now im a confident person. live your life bro. don't let others tell you that you can't do something. Prove them wrong and don't dwell in the past move forward. Life goes on with or without you. it's up too you on how you want to live it. But do me a favor. If you have a facebook search me up. im from hawaii and i'd appreciate it if we just keep in touch. I was you 3 years ago but no one was their too help me. So take this oppurtunity and let someone that's been through it help you through it. much love bro. keep in touch.

Do you become a Proper American when you support Israel and hate Palestinians?

and not consider any facts whatsoever but just think the Jews are people who are being victimized by the Arabs...

Can I use an avian sun, compact fluorescent, 5.0 UVB for my Russian tortoise?

I'm a caregiver for a woman that has a small apt. so the tortoise is in a small plastic bin(16"x21") with a heat lamp hanging down. Not much room for another light. I came across an adjustable 6ft bird lamp with the specs. above and it's less than 12"L(maybe 6" or 8"L). The tortoise is 4 y.o. and very small. Thank you for your responses.

Could my foot be broken or otherwise injured?

You will have to see a doctor at some time but I doubt it is broken because you wouldn't be able to walk on it without a shooting pain in your foot, It could be bruised even if there is no discolouration. I'm not a doctor but I have dropped things on my foot many times and had a broken ankle and sprained other parts of my body. And if a doctor comments on here I would take their opinion over mine.

When have you benefited from sexism? When have you been victimized by sexism?

Have you ever gotten a privilege just because of your gender? What was it? Have you ever been denied a privilege just because of your gender? What was it?

Was my concern for my casual an overreaction?

We were making love (me on top and him on bottom and he was on his knees and towards the pillows at the top of the bed. Halfway thu he wedged his head between the 2 pillow and buried his face under one pillow. I got very concerned for 2 reasons 1) He was dangerously close to a gap on the back of the bed and was shifting slowly towards it. If he head wedged between the gap and was wide enough it would had trapped him and snapped his neck and 2) There was danger of suffocation under the pillows. I got concerned and asked him Could he breathe? and was he ok? but he was more concerned about the sex then his own safety. And got snappy when I suggested he didn't wedge his head under a pillow like that. Did I overreact???

Shoe advice please! Would you wear black tights with these shoes?

Vans ERA Skate Shoe are cute for girls.Era classic lace-up skate shoe. It's comfortable, looks great, Durable, good value, breathable.This is one skateboarding shoe that's always in style. It's Vans ERA, with the classic.

How do you create the new hot emblem on Black Ops?

It looks like its photoshopped! It's not the one the transparent reach glitch. Its this one where it looks like a fan and they look 3D and they can have different color wedges. Anybody know how to make it?

What singer is a game of Operation in her video?

I can't remember the rhythm or song, but in the music video she is a life sized game of operation. She has her face peeking through the table and the hands of doctors are rearranging her plastic bones just like a giant game of Operation. I believe she has brown or black hair, if that helps. Does anyone know what singer and song I'm talking about?

HOW TO MAKE A LEMONADE WITH MINT LEAVES IN JUICER MACHINE?

I want to make a lemonade i know how to make a lemonade but i want to make it like i had it in kfc it's KFC SPARKLING KRUSHER it has lemon juice with lemon wedges with fresh mint leaves so plz how to make that in juicer machine http://www.kfc.co.in/krushers/sparkling.html this is the link to photo of the juice

Just got new dell xps but appears to have scuffs and scratches?

i just got my dell xps today and notice 3 very minor scuffs on plastic border around the screen, along with a very light scratch along the bottom of the plastic border around the screen. Is this normal due to packaging and shipping? or should i do something about it with dell?

Why do women's groups campaign against a mens health office?

Is she on crack cocaine ? She should look at all the women's only programs before she complains about ONE for men.

What would you wear for this job interview?

khakis seem like a good choice becuz you not goin over board but you for sure should not go with jeans. um khakis are tan and you siad your wearing brown shoes. so that brown things. brown and black go terrible together. try to pair it with something navy blue. like a blue button down would be perfect. navy blue or light blue. nothing neon or tealish. that would be perfect!

Thursday, August 11, 2011

If rape is so traumatic why don't more women report it?

Why do false reports of rape outnumber real cases of rape if it is so traumatic? One would figure that a woman would want to seek justice rather than using it as a tool to victimize their ex bfs and husbands with false accusations. On some level they must enjoy it or otherwise more rapes would be reported by the "victims".

Afraid that I may have Borderline Personality?

Okay so I have had issues off and on with anxiety for years and was always a nervous child.It didn't really affect my childhood friendships or schoolwork. I guess you could say that my parents were verbally abusive over a few year period. I was never molested or repeatedly beaten. I have NO history of self harm, impulse behaviors like drug use and drinking(I only smoked pot for a couple of years in my teens) Lost my virginity at a rather young age (14) but didn't have sex again really for several years. I have never really had many promiscuous behaviors and although I sometimes got really upset with my parents and felt victimized, I was never "empty" so to speak or "numb". I excelled at music (playing guitar and vocals) and so I was always consumed by things of the sort and didn't really stay down for long periods of time. I did have a bad temper. But only when pushed. I have broken stuff out of frustration of being called a name or when something of mine was broken but never to just do it. The only real guilt that I have carried is that I did sort of had a thing with a man that was a lot older than I. It lasted from about 16 to almost 18 and I stopped wanting anything to do with him. Being as I was young and naive I didn't really take to consideration that this person had been diagnosed with Bi Polar disorder years prior to meeting me. I had no understanding of the disorder as I wasn't into studying things like that then. That person took his own life after this and that shocked the hell out of me. I don't feel guilt for it though as he had made attempts prior to knowing me during times when he was with other women. I am 26 now and have been married for 3 years and I have had a nasty temper and this is why I am here typing this today. Out of fear that I might have/or have had BPD. I don't have a lot of the symptoms as I stated otherwise (self-harm,drugs,sex,repeated bouts of depression,numbness) But I have exhibited the volatile temper, aggression,hitting, yelling, thing. I have devalued him and then taken it back later.Making him do stupid things ,being vengeful and having to have control etc. I feel like such an a__hole for this now. I was never so much afraid of being alone though as much as a fear of "not wanting to be dooped". It all started with a nagging mistrust of his intentions. He was sort of the type to check out girls. He had done drugs which made me apprehensive. But that's no excuse for me to behave like a crazy *****. I have been scouring these boards for days now in a constant state of worry. Because I have the rage factor and the slight fear of abandonment(although not exactly crippling). I was actually rather content before looking for labels. Even the worst of mood swings. I didn't want to die nor was I depressed or empty. Is it possible to have 3 of the symptoms without being borderline? The uncontrolled temper, inappropriate anger etc? I don't really have a distorted perception of self. I don't think that I need to be perfect to please others. I don't feel a constant numbness and meloncholy. At the worst of my mood swings I was overweight and this made me feel "not as good about myself". But I didn't want to hurt myself because of it. Any advice?

Where the heck do peeps get these turtles from?

Okay, I've been heading to different flea markets and everywhere i turn theirs always a stand with some baby turtles in a plastic container selling them.. Like seriously they have so many of em. So i was just wondering where the heck they are getting them from? Like seriously isn't that like bad?

Did i eat enough for building muscle?

The thing that stands out to me is that you may have insufficient protein in your diet (looks like you're vegetarian) which is essential for muscle growth. A reasonable guideline is to consume approx 1g of protein per pound of body weight per day = 96g per day in your case.Divide this up across your meals and eat approx every 3 hours. I see you have tofu,cheese & veggie meatballs but i don't know how much protein they provide.If you're not getting a min of approx 100g per day at your weight you need to bump that up. You can supplement with a couple of protein shakes per day (whey protein is best). I believe you can get Soy protein powders but whey would be best and you obv do dairy (with cheese & milk) so i'd go for that. Consume a protein shake str8 after your exercise - there's a 30 minute window when your muscles will suck up nutrients. Egg whites are good too if you do eggs and obviously lean meat and fish. You also need to be lifting weights to really grow muscle.

Presto 05100 Microwave Bacon Cooker by�Presto ?

Does anyone know what type of plastic this cooker is made out of? I know some bacon cookers are known to leech carcinogens when they are used, especially older models that are made of plastic #7. Is this model actually microwave safe?

What are some pet peeves of yours & if you could, what would you do about them?

Mine is when American Guitarist chooses a Best Answer because he ALWAYS gives them to Molly! To hell with American Guitarist--he's a biased bastard!

How to build a Lego pneumatic engine?

Saw some videos about them and they are really fast for plastic, just wondering how to build different types of engines from one cylinder to eight cylinders.

Good shoes for my little sister...?

In a few weeks my little sister is visiting me (she is going to be 13 this November). I want to take her shopping. She is absolutely OBSESSED with heels and wedges, but I'm not sure if I should get them for her because she's too young. What do you guys think?

How do I remove myself from an unhealthy friendship?

I've heard that constantly having someone use and guilt you is very unhealthy and should be avoided. Well, unfortunately, I had a friend who didn't start out that way, maybe she was just hiding it to make friends or maybe it was something I did that caused her to allow herself to victimize me...either way, I was warned a number of times not to let her get close to me and I thought they were just being mean. Anyway, they were right! I should have never let her into my life. At this point, we've been living together (because she pulled the "woe is me, no one wants to be my roommate" card, which I fell for) for a few months and she never stops bitching and moaning about EVERYTHING. She's too good for her job (even though she's making nearly twice as much as I am, she expects me to feel bad for her), she hates how small our house is (even though she picked it out of 4 or 5 places I would have been fine with, a few of which were bigger), and so on. She expects me to constantly feel sorry for her, and when I don't she accuses me of being a bad friend and not caring about her feelings. I am in no way happy with this relationship, I have told her numerous times that her complaining about how bad her situation is offends me and makes me feel like a lesser person for being in a similar situation and being okay with it. I've tried telling her over and over that everything would be okay, I've tried being empathetic-to which she replied that she was offended that I would compare my "obviously" better situation to hers and wouldn't talk to me for the rest of the day (super awkward when you're living with the person), I've even tried to be an in between for her and other people she's had problems with to see if we could work out some middle ground (just led to me being accused of "taking the other person's side"). So I just need her out of my life, I think I'll be happier if I have the time to deal with my own problems instead of always dealing with hers. Now, I just need to know how to get out without losing everything. Our deposit will probably come back in her name when we move out, so should I just expect to lose all the money I paid at the beginning or is there a way around this? I have other places I could live, and our lease is up in a month or two, so getting out of that part won't be a problem, but I'd like to manage to get out without having her keep all the money and potentially some of my stuff (I've had her past roommates tell me she'd done that before). Please help!

What is your favorite aquatic moss?

I have always used fake, plastic decorations in my aquarium. Recently, however, I have been feeling the urge to try some real plants. I want to start with something simple, like a moss wall or moss tied to some driftwood. I have been doing some research, and holy crap! There are dozens of species of aquatic moss! Java Moss, Flame Moss, Christmas Moss, Peacock Moss, Taiwan Moss, etc. The only moss that I could really get detailed info was for the Java. I'm guessing that is by far the most common. I have two questions. 1. Does anyone know of a good website where I could get detailed information on all or most mosses out there? Even Wikipedia doesn't have articles on just the few I mentioned. and 2. What kind of mosses do you have? What were your experiences? What worked/didn't work? What was the best looking/ugliest? What kind was pretty hardy? Where there any that took very little to keel over and die? Considering this is my first time using live plants, I think I should go with something that won't die on me very easily. Thanks for your help.

Need help identifying 1980s toy?

I need help trying to identify the name of a 1980s toy. It was manufactured by Mattel (I think), it came out in the late 80s and was a series of plastic cassette tapes that had small board games inside of them. It had built-in spinners and the tiny magnetic pawns could be neatly stored away inside the cassette tape itself. There were like 4 different games: One of them was based upon Mall shopping, but I forget the name of all of them. I think the name of this toy had the name "Sliders" somewhere within its context, but Im not sure about that either.

How to walk in wedges?

Wedges are a lot lot easier to walk in than high heels. I think I still strike the ground with my heel first but obviously I don't put all my weight on the foot until the sole is completely on the ground. Keep your tummy tucked in and shoulders back so you're walking straight and you'll be fine.

My family is being persecuted by Matabars insulated by a Lt COl, nothing is workin. What should i do?

You need to contact a lawyer or a politician about this. It is too much for one family to cope with.

Are these Magic the gathering cards legal?

These cards are not legal in standard or extended formats. They are legal in vintage format however. Art work does not usually have anything to do with the legality of cards. Occasionally, there are some cards that are full art, which are illegal, but other than that it shouldn't' have anything to do with it.

Books: Could you please check the story i wrote?

In the last sentence, you wrote "you are the hero your society awaiting", but i think it should be society IS awaiting".

Best plastic like substitute?

I dropped my machete and the handle broke. the handle was made out of plastic but the metal is amazing because it dos not chip like most. how should I got about fixing the half that broke off, the machete is a slid piece of metal with the plastic held in with screws on both sides the screws are still attached but about forth of the plastic chipped off.

What to do about a BULLY in COLLEGE?

Obviously the bully is wrong for acting that way but the real problem seems to be with the coaches who are allowing it. If you can't get the coaches to act then try the athletic director. It's only a matter of time before things get out of hand if the coaches are just going to allow that kind of behavior

I just had butt implants put in about 2 weeks ago. ?

The implants look nice and round on top right under my back but, the middle of my butt is flat and the ending of my butt isn't too rounded up either. My plastic surgeon said the implant will gravitate down alittle so I would fill the flat part in. I see pics of other implants and they look nice and round all over. I would appreciate someone that has had this problem or another plastic surgeon to give me advice on what to do and what to believe.

How do I make a thesis out of this information?

The victim and the victimizer are connected only by the violent act; there is no relationship beyond that of the event that has linked the two, as is evidenced by "The Ancient Rain" by___and "Se7en."

Add built in webcam to laptop?

I just bought a Compaq Presario CQ56 from a pawnshop. I saw that it had a shaded plastic rectangle area at the top that I was confident was a webcam. I asked, and the guy that sold it to me thought it was too. But i came home and found that this model, xg635ua#ABA, does not have it built in. But other models of this laptop do. So could I send it in to the factory and have one built in. The area is where the webcam would go. But it has a shaded plastic area. And if i could get one installed, how much would i be looking at? The laptop is great just missing that one feature.

Wednesday, August 10, 2011

How to get over the only man I have been with for the past 7 years that i have 2 children with?

I have been with my boyfriend/fiance for 7 years. We have two children together and we make plans to marry but our relationship goes through so many ups and downs it ridiculous. We have been living apart for the past 6 months (still together) and it felt so much better not arguing and fighting every other day. Even though I missed him most of the time it felt good not to have an argument, sleep on the couch and then eventually make up. So tomorrow we are moving back in together and in February I plan on moving out and getting my own place. If their is anyone out there that has been in my situation can you give me some opinions. How can I really take that big step and move on with my life? How can I take that step and don't allow him to wedge his way back in...pretty much come over whenever he likes, spend the night, think he's gonna get "some". Any answers helpful. Thanks

Are Lush products actually any good?

Heeyy and yes I love the products from Lush. I used to buy from them when they just opened, I tried the all natural hair henna, it was good. I've purchased their dream cream body moisturizer and sympathy for the skin body moisturizer. I have to say the best was Sympathy for the skin, it smelled great especially if you like vanilla and almond. I really like how they use all natural ingredients and everything has an expiration date. The cream felt nice on the skin, left it really soft, wasn't greasy and I smelled great! I'm going to buy some more soon. The Almond and Coconut Shower Smoothie was nice too. I love scents like that.. The bath balms are nice but I feel like they're kinda expensive if you like to take a lot of baths. The handmade soaps last forever! I hope this helped you. My friend bought the Ocean cleanser and swears by it, she thinks its the greatest.

Family wedding disputes: tradition or what we want?

You are not being selfish because this is your wedding and you should have it any way you want as this is day which you will remember for the rest of your life. If you don't do what you want to do you then will always regret it and your family should be able to understand as this is YOUR day.

I have an interview at Goodwill on Saturday what should I wear and what to expect?

I applied for a cashier position and I was called in to take a T/F test which I obviously passed being that I have an interview on Saturday. My question is, what should I wear to the interview? would I be able to wear open toe wedges? ALSO what kind of interview questions consists in a cashier interview at the Goodwill? I want to be very well prepared as I haven't had a job in 4 yrs minus the one I had with the Census bureau for a month.

What do you call those covers that go around holes...?

When you cut a hole, there are these plastic things they sell that cover the hole for cosmetic reasons. Usually one end screws into the other or it has to be the same size hole and it just pops in and leaves a clean look instead of a jagged hole. What do you call those things?

Teens, stop victimizing yourself?

I don't think your "friends" are coming..they can probably hear your senseless whining from here.

My Parakeets Laying eggs?

She Laid two or three a while back but didn't take care of them at all and now shes laid 3 more (one got cracked so we had to throw it away) We don't have a nesting box but we put this little plastic dish thing in the cage and shes been going in there and sitting on them she laid a another one today in it and she does Pretty much just sits on them all day ecxept when shes hungry or thirsty.I don't really know what to do. Could somebody please tell me everything i need to know? Thank you and Sorry If i spelled anything wrong or Just Kinda babbled on about things.

Why is the word 'slat' so powerful?

No he shouldn't have called all women that word "slat". Just those who dress and act like one. Maybe if he makes another statement and qualifies that these hags will stop the marches. Don't see any one of them so far that I'd even be tempted to bother with with their permission let alone any other way. I suppose the marches does give them something to do though.

Missionaries. Why don't they do charitable work without pushing their religion?

I always thought missionaries did good acts for three reasons: 1) it gives them a reason to be in a certain area of the world; 2) the people might be more willing to listen to your religious ideas if you are doing something nice for them; and 3) they are leading by example, as in this is what Christians do - they help less fortunate people.

Will a plastic bag melt under a hair dryer?

I'm about to deep condition my hair and it says to let it dry under a hair dryer for 10-15 minutes. I don't gave a plastic cap so I was wondering if it was ok to use a plastic shoprite bag.

Have you ever felt personally victimized by spell check?

Once I went to spell "home" and accidentally hit "homoe" and it auto-corrected to "homoerotic."

Is Sarah Palin just toying with the far left's irrational hatred of her?

well, it's not irrational, but it's not hatred either. She's only interested in press and money, the more of both, the happier she is. What's sad is that those on the right who worship her are the dumb ones being taken advantage of....send her any money lately? Rush home to see her on TV lately? well, there you go.

Would you date a girl who isnt attractive?

I have a friend and she is 15 and she hasn't had a boyfriend yet. She tells me that she will be a loner the rest of her life. The problem is that she isnt attractive at all. Well let me start. She is thin but her face is chubby. She has asian eyes, and small lips. She has acne all over her body.She is pale and Flat!!!! So she doesnt have no butt or boobs.She has dried frizzy curly hair. She always ties it up in a bun and she puts this clip on her hair.its pink hellokity and its plastic. STILL SHE HAS A GREAT PERSONALITY AND SHE IS SUPER NICE. Would you?????? I. Am not asking anyone. To date her. She woudnt like that. I am just wondering how many people would date a person like that?????? Cause she feels like no one would like her because of her appeearance.

I want to buy myself a leather jacket. Should I opt for brown or black leather?

You should make a black leather jacket; it'll match with more outfits and it looks better than brown leather.

What is the hard plastic frame going around the 4G iPod touch's screen?

There is a hard plastic frame that goes around my fourth gen iPod touch's screen and I seriously don't know what it is? The only reason I can tell it apart from my screen is because I dropped my iPod one day and that frame chipped but not the glass... Could it be the wifi antenna, because ever since, my wifi has been really messed up like losing connection but my other iPod is connected perfectly fine?

SlutWalk, and "avoid dressing like sluts in order not to be victimised"?

I don't think what he said is correct at all. I don't have any stats, but there have been way too many cases where fully clothed women on university campuses, elderly women in their own homes, and women in work uniforms on their way home from bus stops have been raped for me to believe that is true. You hear about those cases on the news all the time.

Can anyone tell me how to make potato wedges?

I know you shouldn't peal them, but do you bake, fry, how do they make them so good in restaurants? Also what seasonings should I use?

Do you think most majority of women in the U.S.?

are or ever going to be victims of violent crimes such as rape, robbery, assault, sexual assault, battery, murder, kidnapping, etc? And I'm talking about the innocent ones, I read the loctal news everyday and when I hear about people esspecially women and children being victimized it sickens me, I'm a caring guy and it makes me sick when someone attacks innocent people for no reason.

Wedges? I am scared to look slutty?

I am 16 and bought a pair of wedges. They're about 3.5 inches high. They're cork on the heel and black on the straps. I want to wear them with shorts but I am afraid I'll look slutty? Will I? What could go with them in the summer? I don't pull off dresses well either....

Could you please tell me why this is funny?

It isn't funny at all. It just shows that the alcohol must have killed off FML's last, final 10 brain cells.

Mole removal by plastic surgeon.?

I have 2 moles on my face I want removed. Is a plastic surgeon my best option for minimizing scaring? I have a feeling that this will not be covered by insurance how much do you think it will cost me.

I am going to loose my relationship?

it looks like your guys are together because of the kid it seems you would be better off single and just worrying about your kid he seems like he is to much trouble and has nothing to bring to the relationship i bet you guys fight alot it will be hard for the first few months but u will feel better when you dont feel stressed all the time :) good luck

POLL: Do you prefer smooth or wedged potato chips?

It depends on the flavor, I prefer ridges for dipping ( seems sturdier) and smooth if it's something like sour cream and onion or bbq or anything flavored.

Breaking open a glow stick?

It's kinda cool cuz you can smear it on things and write with it but I highly don't suggest it. Anything that glows neon has to be toxic.

My Viza Viper gas scooter stops when riding! Help!?

I have a 33cc viza viper gas scooter. I recently got a new gas tank. The Company does not make them anymore so I had to get a different one and had to get my uncle who works at a repair shop to put a wedge or something since it didint fit. When I got the new tank on. It worked GREAT. They put a new racing sprocket in, tuned it up and sprayed something on the chain. I rode my scooter alot after the repair. I probably wasted like 10 miles on gas. Well anyway i started noticing the scooter jerking as if it where stopping, it would still accelerate but at certain times it would make those dying noises.Any scooter owners know when they are out a gas there scooter like jerks and starts slowly dying. well MY scooter started to go that. But its different because my tank was half full. Well it got worse later on, and from this day Every time I start It it dies in 15 seconds or less. I personally think its the fuel lines since they are alot longer and cant reach the carburator. But even if I press the little pump thingy I do it like 20 times so enough gas gets in but its not working I have herd people saying its a air leak but I dont think it is. sorry for the long story. I just want my problem Fixed! HELP!!!! P.S. people PLEASE dont say my scooter is garbage china crap. I just want my scooter fixed okay?

My boyfriends mother threatened my life?..?

T.R.A.I.L.E.R. T.R.A.S.H. Do yourself a favor and just walk away from this train wreck, some people are just not meant for better things.

My black berry got chewed up by my dog?

I've only had it for a week and im with att . it still works but the screen is scratched and the plastic lining is lose. since its been less than thirty days since i got it, can i get it replaced?

What do I get her 4 her birthday HELP!? ?

I Have me best friend Antonia we are both in 8th grade we are known as the plastics in our school we have boyfriends everything we want but that's the problem I don't no wht to get her/friend she likes HOLISTER AND AREOPOSTAL but I think we have almost all there stuff and justice and her b-day party is at the rafison hotel or at the holiday in but alot of boyz are gonna be there I think I'll bye her a bathing suite idk help!! Friend problem!

Which options are going to be lowest in calories and fat?

Oh honey, if you want to go with the least amount of fat, no butter, no potatoes , Go for Chicken normally unless its fried.

How is Homosexuality not natural?

Animals sniff and lick each others butts and they eat their young. Should we really use animals for the basis of morality. Animals don't have souls or spirits, and they have no words either. Mankind has words and knowledge that can be added to and hold accountable in a court of law, so you can't compare animals with the human race.

Shorts and heels - yay or nay?

YAY, shorts and heels are totally in this summer. some people may not like they way it looks because of their personal preferences, but i think it looks nice, if you know how to pair the two items together well. and another thing is when wearing shorts and heels you can pair them with knee/thigh high socks which are also very in this summer

Tuesday, August 9, 2011

Have you ever had an abusive teacher in the past and if victimized, how long did it affect you ?

I had a 3rd grade teacher that was so mean to a kid he hung himself from his bedroom fan. It's no joke, some teachers are horrible and have no business around children. I had some issues with really abusive teachers in grade school and I still think about going back and punching them in the throat at age 20.

Experienced Plumbers? Lots of details...?

you can install an in line adapter to both the incoming pipes to the washer machine, called hammer stoppers. they can be bought at hardware store. They need to be soldered in to place which may require a plumber. This is not a uncommon problem and is an easy fix, ask plumbing guy at store he should know about them. Or call a plumber he can explain easily over phone. If you mechanically inclined you should be able to install on your own

Anyone not like animal activists?

I am all for treating animals humanely, but I hate some Animal Rights Activist. They terrorize people who don't believe in the same things they do, they hurt people to make a "point", and they say stupid stuff like "I get more upset if I see an animal die in a horror movie, than a human." or "I can't imagine how the death of a child could be worse than the death of a beloved pet",Because, that just shows how sick they are. Some extremist values an animal's life more than a human. Like I heard some crazy group sent infected needles to a guy's children, because he was testing animals. It's as if they rather see a child die than an animal. I also get tired at their moral high grould attitude when it comes to human harming animals, ignoring that there animals who eat other animals and there are plenty of animals who attack and eat humans. Some of them make me annoyed and they act all holier-than-thou, but they're just as bad, and some people test animals for a reason. We can't test humans! Some people even go crazy when people get mad when other people's pets come onto their lawn and ruin their garden or rush up to people and snap at them, and instead get mad at the people that are being victimized

Where can I test samples for FTIR analysis, Size Exclusion Chromatography,Tensile Strength in Philippines?

Where in the Philippines can I test my plastic samples for FTIR analysis, Size Exclusion Chromatography analysis for molecular weight distribution, and Instron Tensile Strength Analysis? Thanks!

Isn't there Lawyers to help a Mentally Challenged young woman with custody case for her newborn with ex boyfri?

Daughter 33 years old, her first encounter with a boyfriend and now a baby. Baby was a preemie, born 2 months early. My daughter is very independent yet has been with special services all her school life and also is with DDD (Department of Developmental Disabilities. Facing Court with ex boyfriend who has an Attorney, yet they wouldn't allow me (her Mother) to sit with her for support, they made me and my mother go out of the Courtroom. Daughter didn't have a chance, I feel due to circumstances she was victimized. I have Power of Attorney but didn't help me to stay in with her. This was only an Order of Protection hearing so no big deal right now. But paperwork for The Response to the Custody etc paperwork due in a number of days, then a Resolution Hearing being schedules as well as whatever that Attorney comes up with. I am a single Mother with a very limited income and my daughter is on SSI. Can anyone PLEASE HELP DIRECT US TO SOMEONE THAT WILL HELP HER NOT BE VICTIMIZED. WHEN YOU MEET HER SHE IS SO QUIET, LOVING, CARING AND A BEAUTIFUL PERSON. SHE DOESN'T DESERVE ANY OF THIS. Thank you

Girls craze from around 2005 - plastic string/laces?

Does anyone remember the name of these different coloured plastic strings that girls used to play with and make things with? you have to tie knots and intertwine the strings to create the effect?

Just noticed space in teeth.?

I got my braces off like a year ago. i had them on because i was missing two of my teeth. and it closed the spaces. Well i just brushed my teeth and noticed a small space between my two front teeth. i wear my retainer 24/7 (because i have two fake teeth) I don't want to go back to the orthodontist. the space is like the thinness of plastic in a recyclable water bottle. is it anything to worry about?

How do you get a plastic burn to stop hurting?

My dog has a plastic chain outside that we put him on. It's just a wire wrapped in plastic, and he got it wrapped around my leg, and now I have a long burn across the back of my calf. I've tried putting an ice pack on it and nothing seems to be helping. Any ideas?

Was she drinking or not?

Ok so my sister was drinking something out a water bottle so I sniffed the little bit that was left in it, it smelt a bit like alcohol but I'm not sure because it was warm out so I thought I might've been smelling the plastic bottle, I did somewhat of a test and put the bottle in the freezer and after 30 minutes some of it was frozen and the remainder wasn't, do you think there was some alcohol (probably vodka) in there? Also I took a drink and it didn't taste any different then water (well maybe a little different but nothing too strange).

Obesity VS Smokers.....what is your view?

Personally, I think that both issues should be addressed thoroughly by the US Government. I believe that smoking should really be banned, and have that ban be enforced strongly, because the consequences of smoking tobacco can be SO widespread. There's several horrible things that can happen like Lung Cancer obviously, as well as Oral Cancer, etc. However, obesity has just as severe an effect on the human body. It brings many disorders, mainly within the heart. I understand that the nicotine inside this tobacco is literally addicting, but it doesn't give somebody the right to just say "Hey, it's not my fault. It's addictive" but the thing is, anybody can quit, anytime. Similar to that, most obese people have eating disorders, therefore they are addicted to food. The US Health Department should take serious effort into helping every single food addict out there, as well as cigarette addicts. Both addictions bring such bad things into your life, but everybody should be treated the same. Just because people have addictions, doesn't mean they should be spoken down to. Both types of addicts should do something about their addiction, but should not be treated different from each other, as well as the rest of the people.

Rape laws in the United States!?

Please, a well-considered answer to the following. Do you think that the rape laws, currently on the books across the fifty-states of this nation, do enough to protect women or that they victimize her yet again. That current statutes need to be universalized, so that one statute applies in all States. Above all, do you think the law, as applied, is fair to all women or not? Please, no polemics or horror stories, just good and thoughtful answers.

Getting my Fancy Rat to exercise?

I've had my fancy rat for about 6 months. Over that time up until now I've tried to get her used to my hands and let her roam around my room..it didnt work. I bought her a green plastic ball for rats and she won't even get in. I bought her a leash with a jacket so that she could walk around and it was impossible to put it on her. I read that she needs at least an hour of time out of her cage but now that I've tried everything I don't know what else to do.

Criminals feel threatened and intimidated by staff in a prison.Is this not a good thing?

Prisons are correctional centres and to be sentenced to spend time in them is the punishment recommended by law. They are not meant as places of suffering, the idea isn't revenge. Even long-term convicts should be treated humanely, not "victimised, threatened and intimidated" by staff, that makes the society that is punishing them just as bad as the criminals.

Can someone give me a better idea on treating my swollen foot?

I was at my friend's pool party and i jumped of the wooden deck but somehow i miraculously got my foot stuck in the gap between the wooden deck and the plastic outer rim of the pool. I then twisted my body to the left to pull my foot out of there before i break my ankle and i ended up with a really bad swollen bruise on the right side of my right foot. So i put a pack of ice on it and the swollen bruise sank down a lot and i could walk again. Then i decided to wrap my foot around with a cold foot bandage, and decided it will be better by tomorrow. Then i drove home and i went to sleep for the rest of the day and i woke up and now the whole top of my foot is like completely swollen. i can't even bend my toes anymore because the bulge is in the way and i could barely walk. The condition is like worse than before. Can someone give me a better idea on treating this? Or should i just go to my doctor?

My boyfriend's brother lives with us, doesn't pay rent, parties all night & sleeps in all day. ?

My boyfriend asked me nine months ago if it was okay if his brother could stay with us till he got on his feet. I said as long as it's just a short time, couple months, until he found a job. He has partied the whole time, comes in late, sleeps past noon, and now he has a job, but still doesn't pay rent & barely helps around the house. I'm supposed to be quiet in the mornings so I don't wake him. My boyfriend says I'm too loud and that I should be more respectful but I don't feel I'm getting any respect because my boyfriend said he built this house for us and our three kids. His son has a bedroom, his brother has a bedroom & my two children have to sleep together on an air mattress. I used a credit card to buy close to $10,000 in furniture which should be the equivalent of $1100 in rent monthly. I just started a business & I still help around the house. I feel taken advantage of & disrespected. My boyfriend says he doesn't want to have to chose between his love & blood but it's not fair to my children or to me. Am I wrong in feeling like his brother is putting a wedge between us? What do I do?

What can i wear these shoes with?

White shorts. For a top, get that same color pink, maybe with some white stripes or some pretty pattern, with pink and silver bracelets and a heart nekclace.

Dwarf baby tear question!!?

ok so i got a 2 week cycled tank got water tested, its all good, im going to add my first plant to my tank and that plant is dwarf baby tears. i want to make a carpet on the gravel and the guy said for the plant to grow i have to take out my filter and put plastic over my tank so that they can grow? he said it would create moisture something like that do i listen to him or what should i do?

Whats the best airsoft gun?

i need 2 airsoft guns that shoot 350 350 fps with .2 g bbs or less. I want it mostly metal so if the gun has problems i can take it apart instead of the plastic crap that cant be dismantled. I'd like one to be electric and the other spring. Buying from websites is always hard because I am only given biased information from the seller rather than true defects. anyone know of guns fitting my description?

What's wrong with these child predators?

They victimize a child and get caught and then do it again. Even if it's because they want to have sex with kids really bad, why can't they just keep it in their pants, for crying out loud?!

What is this brand called?

The brand or maybe designer is two words, the first one starts with a C and the second one starts with a K. It's not Calvin Klein. I saw this girl with a blue bag with flowers on it (it looked like it was kind of plastic, it was kind of shiny too and it was really plain, just the handle part which was from the same material as the rest of the bag and the bag) and I was trying to look at the designer, but I could only see the C and the K. If you know what I'm talking about, please help me.

I feel like my girlfriend is constantly victimizing herself in every situation we get into?

Tell her, that you deserve more than that. And that if she feels there something wrong, she needs to be open, WIHTOUT an ATTITUDE ,and tell you, maturely, whats bothering her. Otherwise, she can kiss it goodbye

Why do groups off people tend to victimise or talk about one person?

People are afraid to go against the group because if they do they too will become excluded and lose their sense of belonging and security from being bullied themselves. The thinking of the group being focused on a single person (or cause) is that people in general are much more focused and are more willing to work together and not question the leader when there is a defined goal, or "enemy".

What to do about a BULLY in COLLEGE?

Obviously the bully is wrong for acting that way but the real problem seems to be with the coaches who are allowing it. If you can't get the coaches to act then try the athletic director. It's only a matter of time before things get out of hand if the coaches are just going to allow that kind of behavior

Why are dead bodies tossed in the ground when they could be put to much better use?

Sure, there is organ donation, but over all, dead bodies of our fellow man are wasted and frivolously tossed into the ground, when they could be legally used for sexual pleasure, lowering the rape and other sex crimes (like pedophilia), used for scare crows, bones could be carved into fancy knife handles, collectible knickknacks, bowls, or other useful items, eliminating the need to make so much plastic, lowering our oil needs. These are just a few of the many things we could do with our deceased loved ones, but I won't bore you with more details. Why aren't we making this idea reality?

Ok so im 17 years old bout to turn 18 my mother wont let me wear heels WTF?

go out and buy them. keep them in your purse. go out with flats and when shes not around put them on. hide them in your room and stuff or share them with your friends and when your going out tell your friend to bring the pair you want to wear

Why do people kill each other over religion?

I find it ridicules that there is entire wars fought over religion, it seems like a waste of resources and human lives. There has been "Holy wars" for 1000s of years, people fighting in the name of their God. The most recent Holy wars are in the east and the US wastes billions of its dollars to send marines to the east just to protect are interest (Oil, and other resources).Why must people fight about their religions? Why cant they just get along because by definition the Muslims, the Christean, the Catholics,and the victimized Jews all worship the same guy God. The only difference is i believe the Muslims have a different name for him and all these religions have a different way to worship him, but when it all boils down they all worship the same God. So why waste all this time fighting about God its such a pointless fight and gets the human race no were. Course i understand the reason of a religion it is to calm the person about death they want to believe that when they die they will have some were to go, most common name for this place is heaven. But why bring death to you faster or faster to others? I cant blame religion for all the wars because the greedy people that run are nations don't give a flying hoot about us or the future just their own interest.

How to keep sliding car window up besides tape?

Will someone please tell me how I can keep a window that keeps sliding down as a drive up. Besides tape because i already did that and it left a big sticky residue on my car, Ive had a knife wedged in there for a while but it only holds it a little bit longer, do they make a special wedge or something for this problem? thank you.

How to deal with this employee?

So im a courtesy clerk at a grocerie store and because it was a busy day today,I decided to help out all the cashiers along with the other 2 courtesy clerks.Well,when I finally got over to him.He was like "psss" Like he didn't want any help.Now that really ticked me off.And then the customer had a bag that he brought in,and I accidentally start putting his food in the plastic bags and the cashier was like "Dude,he has bags" all rude.So I snatched it out of his hand and he looked at me real funny and I gave him an angry look back! And the customer didn't want his mango's so the cashier was like "go back" except he said it so fast it sounded like "gahbag" and I started putting the mangos in the bag cause I couldn't hear him.And then really rudely he was like "GO BACK" and I was like **** this and I said "Have a good day to the customer" and left his register! Didn't even return the mango's for him.So i helped out all the other cashiers except him and before I left I wanted to tell the other CC's not to help him out.Dont you hate rude employee's? Ive only been there like a week,this is the first and its the last time im gonna help him out! Do you think I should do anything to him?

Monday, August 8, 2011

My morbidly obese uncle is stuck on the toilet, how do I get him up?

nest time this happens, you should try dumping a bunch of canola oil on him or melted butter and then have him wiggle around for a while. hope this helps.

A question about recycling?

I need to know the best place to recycle glass bottles that have irremovable plastic tops on them. Should they be recycled with plastic, with glass, or just dumped in normal rubbish? Glass would contaminate the plastic and vice versa. Can anyone advise me what to do, please?

Racism in the UK is out of control?

You have a vote so you can use it, plus you can campaign is you feel your vote is not enough. Politicians only understand votes. your local party is probably labour if i were you i would vote conservative

Will I ever have lesbian friends?

I'll be your lesbian friend:D theres so much life ahead of you. from what I hear they are'nt your friends. you dont need them honestly. reach out to other people and people outside of your comunity that are trying to come out.

Can you help with this query?

My mum has a primary lung lesion near her spinal cord. The doctors are deciding whether or not she is fit for surgery. She has been given the option of a wedge resection, cyberknife surgery or an open thoracotomy. She is in a psychiatric unit being treated for severe depression at present. She has gained weight since her admission. She has had surgery before 13 years ago for a partial lobectomy. She thankfully has had no recurrences of her old cancers and no metastases thank God. I hope they can do something then she can forget about nodules and cancers altogether and concentrate on the depression lifting which is gradually happening since the admission to the psych unit.

Am i an 'emo'? What makes you emo -.-?

Yeah, im usually depressed, thought about suicide before. I will never cut myself, im too squeamish too anyway. Yeah i have a fringe covering my face because i find myself ugly and everyone denies it even though im not hinting for denials �.� i don't listen to any emo music. I get called an emo but i just think its a word for plastics and bitches to call people when they clearly dont know anything about you. Well im just asking thanks.

If rape is so traumatic why don't more women report it?

Why do false reports of rape outnumber real cases of rape if it is so traumatic? One would figure that a woman would want to seek justice rather than using it as a tool to victimize their ex bfs and husbands with false accusations.

Will I be okay for today?

Forget about yesterday and how you ate too much, don't punish yourself for yesterday. It will just do more harm. You need to be eating way more than that... Especially for all of the exercise you're doing. If you don't eat enough, your metabolism will slow down and that's even worse.

How do you deal with self paranoia and trust issues in relationships?

I have been dating a guy for almost half a year now, and I absolutely adore him. He is amazing, and I couldn't imagine being without him. However, due to the fact that I've been in an abusive relationship and been cheated on in the past, I kind of make assumptions sometimes about him that I probably shouldn't. We had trouble at the beginning of our relationship pertaining to his ex, and ever since I feel like I've been way too protective. I'm so scared he is going to leave me or break my heart, and I sometimes feel like I'm not good enough for him. It's starting to drive a wedge between us, but I feel like I can't help it. How do I control these feelings?

Why would Catholics want a man canonized,who allowed his Church to cover-up sexual abuse for decades?

Well they made Ratzinger pope and he helped cover it up too. I have no idea how they can even begin to try to justify this to the none catholic world, but then again, perhaps they don't feel they ought to.

What is the best surfing and most dangerous spots in the world ?

I've been to the wedge in Newport beach and other small beaches along the west coast, does anyone know of any other crazy spots to go?

Would my boyfriend care about me having a scar..?

i am really embarrass because i have a hideous looking scar on my leg..but i make sure its not noticeable. i think hes the kind of guy who would care about it because one time i asked him if he would have sex with me if i got really fat over again (use to be fat as a teenager) and he said he would probably not want to :( but would still love me the same n,,n im scared of what he will think :( ,i really want to get rid of it but at the moment i don't have that kind of money to pay for a plastic surgeon to fix it :(

If someone unconsciously sends a message that they expect to be victimized does this mean she is asking for it?

If a bank looks like a bank, CEO, tellers and all... Should a robber be exonerated for robbing it, because banks...well, everyone knows there's money there, and dare the flaunt all that money...

I need to help a hurt bird fast!!?

It's a very small bird that just got attached by my cat. There are NO wounds. But the legs seem to be paralyzed. The wings work. It's breathing very hard. I put it in a plastic tub with a towel in the bottom for padding. My parents say they don't want to take in to rehab. They said it's to much hastily for every bird our cat hurts. HELP!!! WHAT CAN I DO TO HELP IT NOW??? ANYTHING!!

How can I get a prototype manufactured in Canada?

Ok so i have my prototype for an innovated product, a website and a registered company name. How can I get this rough model produced on a grand scale and have modifications made on it so it will look like an actual product (plastic frame with foam and other stuff.) it's made of wood and foam.

Use the five steps for problem solving to answer the following question. Please show all of your work.?

The bowling alley on Wedge Street charges $5.50 for shoe rental plus $2.50 per game. The bowling alley on Lawrence Street charges $4 for shoe rental plus $3.00 per game. If one person rents a pair of shoes to bowl, how many games should they bowl to make the bowling alley on Wedge Street cheaper than the bowling alley on Lawrence Street?

Buying advice on 2000 400ex?

Im looking at a 2000 Honda 400ex and the guy wanted $2800 and I talked him down to $2000.It has nerf bars, white bros pipe, k&n air filter and itp ss wheels with holeshot tires 90% tread , he put a 250r rear end in it new carrier bearings and plus I get the stock rims and tires.He also maintained it changed oil regular after 3 or 4 rides and plastic is good but one small hairline crack. Is it worth? Can anyone tell me things I need to look at when buying one used?

Do Women Who Accept Abuse Forget They Are Worth More Than They Have Been Brainwashed To Think They Are ?

I don't see any solution for them except to revive their faith in God. This will purify them, raise their consciouness of their own value as human beings and give them the confidence they need to leave being victimised. If we aren't slaves of God, then we will be enslaved by whoever wishes to enslave us - if they have the capability (and abusive men desire to enslave women, which makes it easier for them to abuse them). What are your views, and the possible solutions ?

Vampirism as a metaphor for rape? What do you think?

Vampire biting has been a metaphor for rape basically ever since the modern concept of vampires has existed. You're not the first one to come up with this...by several hundred years.

How to walk in 5 inch heels? Help!?

So, the question pretty much says it all. How do you walk in 5 inch heels? I've tried walking in 3 and 4 inches before, but I bought these gorgeous wedges and they're five inches. How can I walk in them without tripping? Please help! I'm planning to wear them next week! :D

Clubbing holiday crisis!?

How do you do, to go to a party or is the party are inseparable from the ornament of clothes and decoration. Of course, shoes is indispensable the same. When you don't know how to wear shoes, to give you some advice, hope you can become the most pertinent. I wish you good luck!

Which color of this wedge would you buy?

Ahhhh I am torn between those two colors two! I guess it depends on shoes u already have or how daring u are fashion wise. I already have staple nude wedges so I would go with poppy and wear it with bright yellows and teals a little color bloking : )

Sunday, August 7, 2011

Will cars ever be replace by plastic?

Saturn made a car thats mostly fiberglass is that close enough? But they also went under so huh who knows. A plastic car wouldnt be that safe i dont think.

What can Catholics do about the Immigration Hate Law just passed in Georgia?

I am so embarrassed for my state. I feel like we've been thrown back before the Age of Civil Rights. How could intelligent people victimize defenseless people like this? We are praying that God shows us how to combat such evil. I guess i need to prepare myself to be arrested for peaceful protests against the law. What do you think?

I put toothpaste on my penis HELP PLEASE NO JOKE?

i put it on because i heard it get rid of pearly penile papules so i did and left it for about 3 days. then i took a shower and now my penis looks kinda wrinkled and looks like thers cleaar plastic over it it did make my pearly papules smaller but now it looks wierd it also feels kinda numb HELP PLEASE

I'm torn, what should I do?

Obviously we cant answer this and i suspect you know this maybe a matter for your heart hut feeling it isnt fair to label her a repeat offender type ppl can and often do change but as she hadn i understand you all i can say is most every family believe it or not has very many problems like yours and is as well dis functional only you know whats best the others are grown up so not to much damage but there is the young ones there very vunerable need to think of whats the best option for there future and well being you pedo like a caring lovimg grandparent good luck

Would this be a great recycling solution?

Increasing the amount of money paid to people and organizations for each item of plastic, glass and paper? Do you have any opinions?

Is it odd for a 15 year old to wear heels to school?

I'm about to go into highschool and I've wanted to wear heels for a while now but I want to wear like wedges nothing too much just something to make me look taller I'm very short 4'11ish. Also it goes great with my fashion inspiration I have rite now! Would it be odd for me to wear them? Will people like make fun of me? Either way I'm still going to do it I just want to be a bit papered.

How to communicate more effectively with my husband?

I used to be like that. Sometimes you have to literally force yourself, bottling it up will make the relationship implode slowly. Force the little things out and work your way up.

Are the abused being re-victimized and blamed for their abuse by psychology?

No. As long as they are respected, it is about getting them the care they need and not giving unneeded drugs. As long as they aren't actually being blamed (like when people say a woman who gets raped was dressing sluttily and so was asking for it) then I think it is fine.

Why does Color Guard use metal sabres?

They have to tape the blades anyway, which makes them look like plastic instead of metal. This particular school leaves the tape on for performances as well as plastic. Wouldn't it make more sense to use fake sabres with safer blades? After all, they use "rifles" that don't even try to look real.

How long does it take for a just weaned rat to get to being full grown?

I have a just weaned baby rat, a rat who is just at that level where he becomes a bigger rat (young adult), and I have a young adult who doesn't have too many weeks before he's pretty big, but how long does it take before all three are full grown like my oldest (1 year old). The reason is because they're all in a small cage because the younger two can slip through the bars and I really don't want to seperate bonded rats and I have no clue how to put plastic on wired cage bars, so I'm in a bit of a bind...

Married, almost 3 yrs now- how do you know when it's time to Divorce/seperate?

Wow just 3 years? That's hardly enough time to even be considering a divorce. I was married to my ex husband for close to 25 years before we grew apart and divorced due to his excessive drinking and dishonesty and cheating. The first 5 years always seem to be the hardest and longest. But hang in there and give each other a chance.Don't be so quick to throw in the towel.There has to be some compromise by both partners and definitely some truthful conversations and trust in order to make your marriage work.Sounds like you both definitely need some Christian counseling(both as a couple and on an individual basis)and a lot of prayer. Wishing you the best! Good luck! Smooches!

How do Asians (paticularly Japanese boys) view African-american (black) girls?

Please do not base your assumption after ONE asian guy. They are not all like that. If you don't want people to generalize you because you are black don't generalize others. I have good and bad experiences of people of all races. Some asians guys have liked me and some havent. Some black guys have liked me and some blacks guys havent. I can keep going, but I think you should get the point by now.

Do i honestly need a sponge filter?

everyone keeps saying i need one( patricularly one... yeah you! your always griping and groaning about it) but do i really need one? first off, i have this one plastic thing on the filter and the openings on it are about a centimeter wide and none of my fish are going to get caught into that. why would i need a sponge filter then? should i just keep the 3 bucks in my pocket?

Opinion question! Subject: TROLLS AND TROLLING....?

I have trolled many times and I even find it fun and funny when others troll me. How do you feel? Annoyed? Victimized? Amused? How far is too far? Give me an example of when you were trolled or something that you did or said when you WERE the troll! Please, do explain your pain for my opinionative gain.

Fish picking on each other?

I'd put him back in, if he doesn't calm down then I would keep a good watch. If the platy seems injured then get rid of the aggressive fish and keep experimenting on different tank mates.

Where do hospital staff get the right to victimise abuse and punish patients?

There is a dreadful middle-management culture owing to the NHS's gradual privatisation over the last 15 years and the oversized body of admin (for every doctor and nurse there are three managers and administrators). Patients are often neglected to cut costs.

Introverted, "nice" girl; an unbelievable disadvantage?

I think that generally with today's society, the world has been corrupted by a crazy world, which I am not too fond of. Boys want to fulfil their sexual desire, and forget about all the other strings attatched to a relationship. You are right to have set your standards that high. We all want to find the right guy, that fits us perfectly. In my opinion it may take some time to find him, but you will eventually find a guy who is intersted in listening than sex! Trust me they are out there. You seem like a very intelligent person, who knows what she wants, and there is nothing wrong with that. So good luck

Is it normal for children to cut off their barbies body parts?

As long as you don't do so now. Its okay if you did so when you were a child. Throwing and breaking stuff when angry is normal, I think. But getting pleasure out of it, is something unusual. I do not know if it is abnormal, as long as you don't feel the same way now.

Doesn't Casey Anthony deserve a better lawyer?????????!!!!!?

All are innocent in a court of law until proven guilty. So, what is it Karma?, that Casey gets stuck with Baez? He better get on the ball - people are confused, and he's making it worse for Casey! I don't know about him. Because everyone is unfairly victimizing Casey at this point, in this day and age I have no doubts about under the table deals. He isn't working hard or SMART enough for her, and it looks suspicious to me.

How long till I see results?

You usually see mega changes in diets around the second month although I lost a stone in three, but all i did was cut down.

Is it safe to put plastic wrap under a scanner?

I've got some photos in an album that I want to put on my computer but the photos are under plastic wrap. Can I put the photos under the scanner without the plastic melting?

What to wear to an outside September outside wedding?

Don't wear a short dress. Either knee length or just above the knee. I personally would wear a nice knee length dress, maybe in navy. With a nice shrug in case it is cold. Wedges or high heels with a wide heal would be best.

Why do Sanctuary policies in Houston allowed young women to be victimized by illegal alien sex traffickers?

because the end result of liberalism is always to bring more liberals in to consolidate power. Sanctuary cities exist because people who seek sanctuary from the law usually tend to be both criminals and liberals.

Worried about my calorie intake?

you have not eaten ENOUGH today. With the amount of exercise you do, you need to take in about 2000 calories, and you've only taken in about 900 (including what you'll have for dinner). After the exercise, you'll be at about 1500 calories, which is a little enough amount to cause you to lose weight (if that's what you're wanting to do). a deficit of 500 calories/day is enough to cause a 2lb loss per week, which is the most you should lose per week.

How can I improve my quality of life? Advice on suicidal thoughts?

Giving up wont help..I am only 16 years old and Ive thought of killing myself..but I havent because I know for a fact there is something in this world worth living for I just have to find it..and my parents are holding me back. Im not homosexual but I understand your pain..there is a guy out there for you everyone was made with a soul mate some people just cant treat them right. U are not ugly..dont ever think your ugly becuase you arent no one is because looks arent important its the personalilty that matters and all you have to do is let them see that :) good luck need anymore help you have me as a friend!

Blame the victim for dressing like a "****"?

It is NOT the victims fault! It's the person who assaulted someone that's to blame. The fact that someone would blame a innocent person makes me sick!

I need a 5+ inch height increase?

you cannot buy lifts that high you can get some that will put you up maybe 2 1/2 inches but no more than that - you may just have to deal with it.

How should I cook chicken thighs to tastes good with Parmesan potato wedges?

Just season up w/ S&P, maybe some garlic or onion powder... melt equal parts butter and olive oil in a skillet, just to coat bottom. But thighs in skin-side down. Let them sit until browned, then flip. Let that side get browned. Then put entire skillet + chicken in the oven 350�F for about 35-40 min to finish baking. (Make sure your skillet is oven-proof on the handle.)

Im good at stand up bodyboarding would it be easy for me to learn how to surf?

Only one way to find out champ..... but from what i'm hearing it sounds just like someone saying there good at riding a bike and can wonder if they can ride a motorcycle.So I would say yes. You can also start out by surfing towards the shore which will be easier that standing up on a body-board. Then progress to surfing into the wave like you see most people do.

I need to get a GW....?

It would make more sense to go with a 50 in order to more evenly space the gap you have in your wedges. You might also want to confirm that your PW is 43*. That is an extremely strong loft for a PW.

Silicone ear plugs help?

ive been wearing a pair of 6g plastic plugs that screw off at the ends, i recently went out and bought a pair of 6g silicone plugs and i cannot seem to get them in, they are not hollow and the ends are bigger than 6g but your supposed to be able to squish them but i cannot manage doing this, any advice?

Got told by my boss that I created a hostile work environment?

I was sent to the accoutning office today by my manager Dedra Giles exclaiming that I had caused a hostile work environment for her and her management team because I had written a letter to the company stating how they had been treating me. In purposely giving me low scores and and pointing and talking negatively about me to coworkers and now she is saying that i make her feel like she cant even come around me. She said everything I had written to the company was a lie and that they werent going to do anything about it! Also I found out today that she has been telling coworkers that I have been leaving the restroom messy all the time! I really feel like I am being victimized in this situation and I need to know what it is that I have to do in order to make this stop!?!

My sister is in big trouble..........?

Have your mom file for custody of the baby, that is the only way out of this, or she WILL move and then it will be up to child services in Hawaii to deal with her.

Guy help & advice, unfortunately.?

you aren't very mature for 18. You should learn to talk about current events , do some reading , learn some interesting facts, you don't have any thing to talk about so you resort to talking about people or starting fights just to have something to talk about. you keep pushing their buttons to keep them involved. but that gets old after a while. if you want to talk to dudes, find some stuff dudes like to talk about. don't make it other people or girls. you ain't never gettin laid if you start talking to guys about other girls. guys aren't like girls and have an endless line of bull$hit so you need to make your conversations interesting and natural. not like you are reading a book while trying to participate. but that goes for conversation with all people. not just guys. yeah you may have to remold your conversation style. but you got maybe 60 more years to converse. so it will be worth the effort.

Poem. what do you think? brutal honesty is welcome. =)?

could be interesting, but you should polish it a bit more. I do like it. Maybe edit out some bits? right now its probably an 80%. I am an amateur poet.

What does the medical bracelet 'limb alert' mean?

The pink bracelet that indicate "NOT" to use any IV, blood drawns, or medical procedure on that arm,leg ,etc,

Tongue piercing with retainer?

Wait until you just wear your retainer at night, because you pretty much never have to see the orthodontist again so he doesn't have to know. And it couldn't damage your teeth THAT much because so many people have one. I say go for it.

How can i wear these shoes???!!?

Ok so payless is having a major sale and i got two pairs of wedges! One dexter peep toe denim wedge with a leathery brown lining that form a bow on the top (only $10!) they look so cute to me but i hav nooo idea how to wear them. any idea?? i also bought a pair of green peep toe wedges...they were only 10 dollars as well and i couldn't get them in a different color but they were a great deal! how can i wear these? BTW i cannot wear shorts, Capri's, tights or short skirts (must be ankle) but i can definitely wear skinny jeans and i need a shirt which i can wear with cardigans! any ideas??? Thanks for the help! :D

How can i stop myself from being so angry and rude to people?

I got a bad temper have been victimised, unfairly treated, betrayed, sexually harrassed a hell of alot, unfairly targetted, and mistrust many I come across

Saturday, August 6, 2011

Does any one know where I can purchase a splash guard for the end of my pressure washer lance?

I've seen these advertised at some time or other but can't remember where.It's a flat wedge shaped plastic adaption that fits on the end of the lance to stop the water splashing up over everything in front of it. Can anyone help please ?

What other cities rioted after the Stanley Cup Playoffs?

We couldn't have been the only ones upset after a big loss. Help me out, I feel like Vancouver's being victimized and I want to have something to say back to those hecklers!

Where can I buy the lid tops caps for glass lids on pots and other stove used items?

You could use a small drawer knob with a screw and a couple washers. They are available in many hardware stores and antique shops. Just be careful if you use ceramic so you don't burn yourself.

If batman can't save us then who can?

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What is your opinion on cosmetic surgery compared to plastic?

Cosmetic surgery and plastic surgery are about the same. The difference is that one might need plastic surgery for an injury or birth defect. In that situation it wouldn't be considered cosmetic since it's medically necessary.

1990 FZR1000 carb problem?

My bike has a full exhaust and open airbox. So I have a set of carbs for a 90 FZR1000 with a stage 3 dynojet jets. Basically i replaced my "stock" 1990 carbs that run rough and die at 5500 rpm with these 1993 FZR1000 stage three. The guy i got them from said they were cleaned and sync. I put them on my bike and it sounds as if it's running on 3 cylinders. Also the carbs on the right spit out gas when you open the throttle and they run hot! As you touch the diaphragm plastic cover it's much hotter then the two left ones. I sputters and idles like crap, it wont stay alive even adjusting the idle. The RPM fluctuates. I placed the old Stock carbs back on and it runs fine (up until 5500 rpm as it did before). So what it the problem? Thanks for the help

What Shoes with my Prom Dress?!:S?

You should wear Paris Hilton Women's Senorita Pump to match with your above dress.It's beautiful shoes.Satin or lace-covered satin upper in an evening dress pump style with a round, open toe. A curvaceous silhouette features a softly sculpted collar and vamp, cupped heel and cutout inner arch, a sculptural looped satin bow embellishment creates an extravagant finish.

Are these rock lyrics i wrote any good?

I'd say it's okay if you're gonna scream the song out, but if you're singing these lyrics lack a little depth.

How do you make shorts look classy?

I mean, can you wear shorts and heels and look formal? Like, you can wear dressy shorts and wedges and not look like a slut, right? I'm attending an event next week and I get tired of wearing mini dresses, dress pants and skirts. What do you guys think? I can wear dressy shorts, wedges and then a blazer or would it look tacky? Help please! -_- Thanks for answering!

My neighbor is trespassing on my balcony. What can I do?

if he trespasses call 911. If he threatens call the cops. Get a gun and if he comes around threatening, self defense.

What types of clothes can i wear these shoes with?

I'd suggest some nice white loose-fit/baggy trousers with a light floral pink top. Hope this helps :]

1 in 4 women are abused by their partners...?

I agree with the Insert_name dude. They are actively seeking relationships because they don't want to be alone. just because you prefer being single doen't mean other women do.

Can I use an avian sun, compact fluorescent, 5.0 UVB for my Russian tortoise?

I'm a caregiver for a woman that has a small apt. so the tortoise is in a small plastic bin(16"x21") with a heat lamp hanging down. Not much room for another light. I came across an adjustable 6ft bird lamp with the specs. above and it's less than 12"L(maybe 6" or 8"L). The tortoise is 4 y.o. and very small. Thank you for your responses.

Plastic surgery question?

I guess its possible but I would definitely consider that your ribs are there for a reason - to protect your organs! Obviously the removal of your ribs on one side was necessary, but removing them on the other side purely for looks could put you in danger if you were to get in to a situation such as a car crash or a violent incident.Obviously you need to discuss this with a doctor who can discuss the pros and cons, and whether this kind of surgery is even possible! Maybe it is even feasible to have some false ribs constructed on your other side. Good luck with it! And congrats on the weight loss!

I'm going to bleach a logo onto a t-shirt...?

So I found this DIY thing that shows you how to put a your own logo onto a dark colored t-shirt by laying letters on it and spraying the shirt with a bleach and water mixture. I have pre-cut letters that I'm using which are made from a sort of card stock type paper. Will the bleach soak through the letters? Should I put plastic wrap on them or something? Also do you think the discoloration will soak through from around the letters and mess up their shape? I know this would be a sort of trial and error thing but I only have so many letters and I don't want to waste them.

Why do so many homophobes always bring up the fact that gay people can't reproduce together?

It's not the fact that they can't reproduce, its the fact that nature didn't crested homosexuality (just like nature didn't create artificial sperm, birth control, etc) because if nature had created homosexuality then men could grow babies. Ok I know for sure Ur going to say artificial intimation, sperm banks etc. Well imagine there was a nuclear war, and everything was pretty much destroyed. All the sperm banks, all the labs, everything gone. Would homosexuality still be natural? No. Why? Because they can't naturally reproduce. They need a donor, sperm bank, etc. But of course Ur not going to want to believe me, because maybe u don't want to hear the truth but that's the truth, and facts.

I feel like I'm being victimized by one of my friends...?

For starters, I've known this friend for about 2 or 3 years now. He didn't used to be like this, but recently he's started to treat me worse than usual. I may be overreacting, but I don't feel like I am. It began when he decided he liked me and I liked him back, but I knew he was kind of a player, however, he felt bad about this as well and said he wanted to change. We never really went out-- it never got to that stage because neither of us had the courage to ask each other out, so we remained as good friends. Unfortunately, we do fight a lot. So much so that it has even lead me to break up our friendship, but we always end up back together somehow. Right now... I just feel like he doesn't care. He's all "buddy buddy" with all of his other friends(girls and guys) and treats them perfectly fine, but when it comes to me... He always has some rude comment to say or accuses me of something. The funny thing that I've noticed is that during the day(when his other friends are mainly around), he treats me horribly, but when it's later at night, he's actually nice to me and we can carry on a conversation without him making up some rude comment about me. Of course.. he usually only comes to me about his problems and "the girl who just ditched him or deleted him from facebook". He only comes to me to complain about his issues basically.. and then later says to me that "I complain to much and that the world doesn't only revolve around me." He came up with that response after I simply asked him a question. and I didn't get an answer either. I'm afraid if I try speaking to him-- he'll come up with a lame response and say I'm being absurd. Lately I've been thinking of breaking up the friendship, but I'm kind of afraid too. What do you think? See any reasons as to why he would be treating me this way? It has also come out again that he likes me, however, he has said before "Been there, Done that, Won't work." in regards to a relationship with me. I might add that he's still a player...

Why are drunken yobs so pathetic?

So much so that they choose to victimise, torment and terrorise a young single woman living alone instead of picking on someone who can defend themselves? Every weekend I have people vandalising my house and peeing on my terrace and if I come out of the house or come home late alone they threaten and verbally abuse me. I have a big dog but she's not much of a guard dog - too soft- and I can't afford to go and live in a better area. The police refuse to help as it happens late atnight and "they're not around" wtf?!? PS I live in Italy,starting to regret it.

Golfing tips NEEDED please!!!?

Ok so I'm 16 and started to golf for fun 2 weeks ago and I went to the driving range once and did alright all I care about is hitting the ball right now. Which is where I need help. In my yard probably a few times a day for like a half hour I go out with a 9 iron(closest to a wedge I have) and hit balls. I'm guessing 60% of the time I "top" the ball which is incredibly frustrating to chase the ball 10 feet and hit again, 20% of the time I take a chunk of dirt out before the ball without even touching the ball or just touching the ball with the side of the club and have it fly way left(I'm a lefty). 10% is that rare perfect hit. But that's only at first. If I can hold myself together and stay out there I hit more and more good hits until I get it almost everytime. Buttttt then the next time I cone out it's like in starting from scratch which is so frustrating because I know I can hit a good ball. I use the interlock grip and my pinky finger is getting a little sore but not bad. So is there anything to practice to keep doing good?? Cuz I just don't wanna be holding people up at the golf course and embarrassing myself

HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!…

In September 2008, My mom and I had a meeting, and the woman at the place let me choose instead of my mom so I went school all the way in crown heights and they lift me up and dropped me on the floor repeatedly and it hurt my ribs and I cried and they ignored me and I sat down and one of dem said ''GET UP!'', threw balls in my face over and over again, and tried to push me down the stairs, broke plastic trays on his head and shoved food in my mouth, and a kid is gonna tell people to do bad stuff to me forever, Since they did this. Should I kill my self?

Am I going to far over a slap?

No youre not overreacting. I knew a girl who was a total b*tch and she could get away with it because of "problems". We all have effing problems but we dont all go acting like bullys. Ffs. Yes do the police thing if that fails then punch her in the face, seriously, do it as hard as you can and then if teachers question you over it and get you in trouble just make up some sh*t about you having so-called "problems". Maybe spread a bad rumour or two about her too x). Dont let her get away with it, though.

How should i cook the ingredients i have for my husband's dinner tonight? and which ones?

Boil the broccoli and brussel sprouts with a lil margarine salt and pepper and drain them , and melt some chease and mix with chunky salsa if you have some, bake the potato wedges, and cook the beans with the rice in your rice cooker, then take the ramen noodle flavor packs and mix them in with the rice, keep adding packs until it tastes good, sounds bomb to me, now I'm hungry lol good luck

What should I wear in high school? Changing my wardrobe.?

don't change your style at all, be yourself. ima senior in highschool on the football team, and i have so many girls after me but none of them have style like that, and thas what i like. if its you then change up your style a little bit but dont change it, guys dnt like fakes.

Dad and girlfriend fighting because of me?

In my opinion, it doesn't sound like you were selfish. It sounds like the housekeeper is in charge of what she was doing and you did her a favor by saying that you would take over and she was free to eat or wash or whatever. I don't know anything more than what you've posted, but it sounds to me like your dad's girlfriend is the selfish one. Obviously, I wouldn't say that to her or to him because the last thing you want to do is purposefully come between their relationship. Maybe the next time they're arguing about you, you could go in and ask in a calm, non-argumentative manner, "What actions tonight made you feel that I was being selfish?" Try to understand why they say what they say. If they won't let you into their conversations, try to find some time to talk to your dad individually. Tell him that it hurts your feelings that you feel like his girlfriend doesn't like you and you don't think you were being selfish. And that if you were selfish, you're sorry. Maybe try to talk to him about why she doesn't like you. It seems like she may just be jealous that you come first in his life (which you should because you're his daughter and he chose to have you). She could be jealous of that role or she could just be jealous of anyone that takes your dad's attention away from her. No matter what the cause is, she may be completely unfair, and I don't think you should sit back and take it. I think if you can talk to your dad, that will be the best thing. I would recommend not attacking her: instead of saying "She...," I would say "I feel..." That takes the blame off of anyone and makes your dad pay attention to the emotions. Good luck! Just because she doesn't like you, doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you! It's important that you know that! If you're respectful to her, then she is the one with the problem.

HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!…

I went school all the way in crown heights and they lift me up and dropped me on the floor repeatedly and it hurt my ribs and I cried and they ignored me and I sat down and one of dem said ''GET UP!'', threw balls in my face over and over again, and tried to push me down the stairs, broke plastic trays on his head and shoved food in my mouth. Since they did this. Should I kill my self?

Are "new" atheists the victims of grooming in the classroom?

Yes you have fallen for new information, an education and uncompromised free thinking. WAKE UP! New information is bad, an education isn't necessary and conditioned thinking is the way.

Why is CPS doing this?

CPS workers are sometimes uneducated but not always, they will tend to allow their personal biases interfere with rational thinking. Your friend may be very persuasive and has convinced the person that you are the one at fault and could have very easily indicated drug use along with firearms in order to protect himself, your best option is to move and get out of the abusive relationship before it cost you custody of your child. !

My family is being persecuted by Matabars insulated by a Lt COl, nothing is workin. What should i do?

You need to find a lawyer to represent you or a politician. There is no way this kind of stuff should be happening.

How to build a lego pneumatic engine?

Saw some videos about them and they are really fast for plastic, just wondering how to build different types of engines from one cylinder to eight cylinders.

Friday, August 5, 2011

Sun dress with cardigan to a club?

Was wondering if it would be ok to wear a short sun dress with a cardigan and some funky jewerly and maybe some wedge shoes to a club? I'm in my 30's and wont to be cool and comfortable but not to look like a scank...lol Thanks and suggestion to the outfit would be greatly appreciated

New high heels cutting my heels?

I got brand new high heel shoes, they're wedge and very cute. They have these fabric backing for my heels so I don't break my ankles . And the fabric isn't very comfortable. It cuts my heels and makes them very sore. Is there anything I can buy or use to make this stop? Thank you(:!

Is the Bahai Faith Pro-Live?

Does anyone know when, why and how the Bahais began allowing members to be pro-choice? I declared 30 years ago, and they were definitely pro-life then! Baha'u'llah, when asked about rape once, said that (paraphrasing here) the woman thus victimized could not be forced to MARRY the rapist, but he did NOT say she could kill the unborn child. 'Abdu'l-Baha gave a long answer to the question of killing the unborn when he said (paraphrased, of course) that the soul and body are joined at conception and once conception occurs any interference with the life of the body was also interference with the progress of the soul connected to that body ; disrupting the life of the developing human at any stage from conception forward, was, in fact, the killing of a human being. (I did not say it, 'Abdu'l-Baha did) Abortion is clearly recognized in the Cause as the killing of a human being, and the killing of a human being , regardless of their location, is prohibited in the Cause except in cases of self-defense. A Bahai wrote the Guardian of The Faith in 1939 asking whether abortion was permitted and the Guardian responded "The practice of abortion -- which is absolutely criminal as it involves the deliberate destruction of human life -- is forbidden in the Cause" , The Universal House of Justice does not have the authority to abrogate the teachings of Baha'u'llah or to change the interpretations of 'Abdu'l-Baha , but they do have the authority to regulate the question of what constitutes a self-defense killing of an unborn child (ie: abortion for valid medical reasons: the emphasis being on the word "valid" because only reasons of self-defense are "valid" in the holy law.) Therefore; The House of Justice said "Abortion merely to prevent the birth of an unwanted child is strictly forbidden in the Cause." Yes, they said "STRICTLY FORBIDDEN" and I do not find anywhere that they have changed that statement. They have also said "Birth control procedures which allow the ovum to be fertilized but do not permit the fertilized ovum to develop are thus not permissable..." The fertilized ovum MUST be allowed to develop and the feotus is one of the stages of that development. In fact, we are all "developing fertilized ovums" until the day we die. Does it make sense that the fertilized ovum is protected, but the subsequent stages of its development are not? The right to live, according to all the holy law, comes into existence at conception and continues in 'full force' during every stage of our lives from that point onward. This is a divine reality (godly truth). Given the prohibition against elective abortion clearly stated by the Guardian and the House of Justice, and the clear prohibition against abortion in the holy law which Bahaullah did not abrogate.................can anyone tell me where this idea has come from: that a Bahai can accept elective abortion (ie: be pro-choice) without being at variance with the divine reality? Bahais are required to speak to moral issues and to act in defense of the divine reality , to stand up for the helpless, the unwanted,the uncared for in the world. The question of whether God protects human life from conception is one of those divine realities and the unwanted unborn are among those helpless whom God has commanded us to protect on His behalf. We are to emulate the world of God, not the world of man. Rejection of the divine reality is separation from God and to Bahais, Hell. So, when did Bahais begin advocating against the sanctity of life and the divine reality? Is this true that Bahais can actually advocate for abortion or is this a misunderstanding of some kind? ....and don't tell me killing unborn children is political so Bahais don't talk about it. This is a moral question not a political one and we can't make it go away by calling it 'political'. We talk about war and peace all the time, and they are far more political than abortion! Bahais must seek the divine reality for themselves, true, and if they choose sin (ie: dispute the divine reality), and they can, they have free will to do so, they have separated themselves from God and become Bahais "in name only". This freedom to choose between sin or the divine reality, however, does not mean that the faith promotes choosing sin or is benign to choosing sin (ie: choosing to act or believe at variance with the divine reality). Bahais are supposed to follow the light of the divine reality, not the lamp from which it may shine at any given time. The sanctity of human life from conception to natural death is the light of divine reality. Love, unity, peace and prosperity cannot be attained without first clinging to that divine reality. Does this light still shine from the lamp of Baha or has it moved elsewhere?

Does wedge flex matter?

It didn't hurt my game at all and my situation is opposite. I used to have a set with regular flex shafts that came with a sand wedge that was regular flex. I got new wedges and the shaft was stiff(S200), but my new irons are reglar flex(R300). I could hit my old 56 farther than the one I have now, but I have much better control with my new one.

So what's everyone's opinion?

I love facebook use it everyday. I change my password regularly enough. Every 2 months or so. You just need to be careful only have friends you know.

SlutWalk, and "avoid dressing like sluts in order not to be victimised"?

I don't have statistics, but I think it's safe to assume that if you wear revealing clothes, you are more likely to get raped. If you leave your purse in plain sight in your car, it is more likely to get stolen. That doesn't mean it's your fault, but it means that you could have avoided the situation by being more careful.

Would acrylic paint work on plastic?

For a flower or herb box as an example. Want to be creative and add details. Not just spray paints if possible.

Villan verses victim? What can I do?

Try getting your kids alone in a real conversation & see how they really feel about you... Chances are he is still just being mentally abusive & lying about any & everything to get you back where he wants you! Don't buy his words, take them with a grain of salt; he has ulterior motives! He just sounds like another emotionally abusive creep tryin to get his way if you ask me!!! :/

What will people think about me when I move to California?

Well since you're moving to L.A, there should be some, but don't worry. As for Earthquakes, they rarely happen. There are a lot of gangs in L.A, but most gang activity is in certain areas like Compton for example.

Whats a good airsoft to buy?

Whats a good air soft thats around 150 dollars or less. Im kinda new to the hobby but I would like a metal one instead a plastic one and for it not to be an ak. I've been searching for a while but I need some help.( I pefer an m4 but anything would work)

How effective are ice hockey goalie pads for street hockey?

You don't have to get fancy/. I just rolled up news papers and taped them to my legs and it worked fine.

When do you use an A wedge?

Just got a new set of Irons. It came with an Approach wedge. I hit my PW about 100 yards when hit full. What can I expect from an AW?

Is this a suitable character thing for Hamlet..?

I see no problems other than a couple of typos, spaces left out and unless watheeh is arcane Shakes-lingo (LOL) you should fix that. GOOD work go getcha an A

Why are people Keeps telling me this ?

My name is Nader, i'am 18 years old , living in Egypt, i love Computers ,i love dealing with all the Operating systems like Linux & windows , mac, i just got some experience, i can make 5 boot operating systems on my netbook, i'am fast in using computers , such as Typing , Killing processes from the Task manager , creating After effects projects , Powerpoint Presentations up to 30 slides with videos & Hyper link buttons., I collect Computer hardware to get a Pc cpu collected in the case , i know most of the CPU components , i know most of the Processors , Rams out there, , i love to make some little things like Making my own Headphones, i get Thick heavy wires with paint sprays , i make them Mono channels ,then Melt plastic to reform their Body. , i made an electronic board that is connected between the headphones & the mp3 with a Led that Light up whenever the bass appears., i've hacked psps , i've got the 1000/1000 in the Microsoft office specialist Certificate in my collage, now the Thing that is Somehow annoying me is that Most of my fellow student whether they are my friends or not, they keep thinking that i am a computer genius , whenever they ask me about something and i reply and solve the Problem with a phone call they somehow tells me that i Should have NEVER entered Business administration section here in collage. whenever the Professor's Laptop do something wrong not allowing us to get the Lectures displayed on the Projector, he Asks who can help ?,. EVERYONE says "Nader". so i come out & Fix it & the professors knows well about me that i have good computer Skills. they ask me to Copy some books to a power-point Presentations and after i do , they get shocked telling me , Omg you did all that in that Short time ?., they Give me Extra Marks for that too., EVEN everyone i see is telling that. , I do believe in myself but i Don't know what to do about it . Can this be my Career? , i am confused, I just WISH to know why are they saying this & what should i do . Thank you a Million Times.

Is it normal for children to cut off their barbies body parts?

As long as you don't do so now. Its okay if you did so when you were a child. Throwing and breaking stuff when angry is normal, I think. But getting pleasure out of it, is something unusual. I do not know if it is abnormal, as long as you don't feel the same way now.

So I searched for some movers to move moi things out to?

moi place in new england, instead they sent them to the canadian border on the northwest side I cannot get in contact with these people to even get them to move things to were theyre suppose to go I didnt ask to be reimbursed to get a different group of movers all together kindly told them to move it to the correct location, it's been months and they hadn't gotten back to me , Im having problems with my finanical portfolios as well I dont know where moi things have been moved to, besides they were saying I was just arguing with the supervisors I nicely assertively them to were they suppose to be moved to, not the place I was robbed and victimized at the police arent involved like I was under the impression they were otherwise moi things would have been moved to where they suppose to or been able to find a different set of movers all together by now

Waa24171 bosch drum dismantlement?

if you are trying to remove something from between the drums try to go thru the tub to pump hose, or the heater port. Just remove the heater and fish around with a hook. Dismantling the outer drum is a tough job. Good luck.

Wjich top is better ? :D?

I definitely like the second one! They both are cute, but I always love the second type of top. Hope this helped!

Where can I buy cute cheap wedges?

I want a cute pair of wedges for summer.I looked at Payless, but I didn't like their selection so much. Are there any other stores that have cute yet cheap wedges? Thanks (:

What type of top jean would you wear with this shoe?

so i recently bought dis wedge from payless and i really need a outfit for it. jeans and tops only please no shorts (i'm not allowed to wear shorts or anythign that doesn't cover my whole leg)! links would help a lot too. thanks! btw the material is navy blue denim and the bow is a leathery texture. here are the shoes: http://s387.photobucket.com/albums/oo311/hdiallo/?action=view¤t=wedgieee.jpg

Can I take a small blunt knife on a flight to US?

This is not a knife really, the only thing that allows to call it that way is its look and shape. The blade is 3.5 inches long and is neither sharp nor meant to be sharp, i.e. you can't cut anything with it even if you try very hard. The tip of the knife is not sharp too but has a shape of sharp wedge. So yes, if you push really hard, I think it is possible to harm a person. Though I don't think it can penetrate anything harder than t-shirt. I'll be having a flight to the US and I want to take this thing with me. Will they allow me to take it into the plane? If no, how can I transport it: should I put it into the non-hand-luggage (sorry, don't know the term)? If yes, will they want to open the bag and verify the thing (in that case I'll put it closer to the top of the bag to make it more accessible).

How to remove a huge Plecostomus from a 29gallon fish tank?

I have 2 huge 6-8 inch Plecostomuses. I'm planing to either sell them or retank them when I buy a better sized tank. The problem is, how the heck do I take them out. I have two small fish nets (the little tiny net to get small fish). But they're no match for the Plecostomuses, 1x1" square net. Do I use a small plastic shoebox and catch them? Or do I grab them out by hand? I have no idea. These are my second/third Plecostomuses (the first one died VERY young). Please tell me before I sell/retank them! 10 points for best answer.

Do you get annoyed about christians whinging about christmas?

What's the deal with all the Xmas questions around here lately? It's wearisome enough to have to deal with them during the winter. Anyhow, I grew up attending Christian schools, and we were taught in the earliest grades that Christmas was derived from earlier Pagan festivals. So the allegation that December 25 isn't really Jesus' birthday is hardly a surprise. No, "Xmas" isn't "crossing Christ out of Christmas". Yes, I'm glad to say "Happy Holidays" because I'm perfectly aware that the entire planet doesn't celebrate Christmas. Yes, the festival was an overlay with earlier pre-Christian festivals. It's just not news anymore, and hasn't been for centuries.

Where can I buy the lid tops caps for glass lids on pots and other stove used items?

You could use a small drawer knob with a screw and a couple washers. They are available in many hardware stores and antique shops. Just be careful if you use ceramic so you don't burn yourself.

Thursday, August 4, 2011

Looking for some brown wedge sandles?

I'm looking for a pair of tanned or brown coloured wedges (as in sandals/shoes) that are inexpensive (�20) nor too high. Also to have a simple design or look like gladiator sandals. If you have seen any, or websites i could try? Please post links and not just shops to go to as i have looked many places. Thank you :)

Shouldn't we declare war on this massive plastic swirl of garbage in the Pacific?

The one composed mostly of the plastic water bottles that the yuppie liberals couldn't live without? Yes we should declare war, and we should draft the yuppie liberals to fight it. Let them clean it up.

Softcup usage question?

So I recently started using the softcup. And, even though the plastic part unfolds to hold the period, I was wondering if it really does extend in the body? Because it always seems to stay flat when I take it out, therefore not lasting long, spotting in my underwear. Maybe I am putting it in wrong? Does anyone else have this problem? Do reusable menstrual cups not have this problem because they are lower? So I guess my main question is why does the softcup not hold very much because it is not unfolding?

Any 1 no where to find these shoes for cheap?

ok love theses shoes (Jeremy Scott Leopard Sneaker Wedges) but ever time i look at them there 200 to 700 dollars i really want these shoes can any 1 find a cheaper pare i don't care if there knock offs

My baked chicken raspberry sauce marinade?

Okay i got it,thanx alot,cant wait to try it...ima get the ingredients for it monday and try it that weekend..cant wait,thx once again...

Black Widow What Should I do?

so i found a black widow and my dad manage to catch it and i have it in a plastic container so Im not sure what to do with it any ideas? and it is a black widow it has a red hourglass on its belly.

What to do about a BULLY in COLLEGE.?

A bully in college is more dangerous as this can no longer be called a phase he is going through, it is now his character. I love that you are willing to stand up for the underdog and do the right thing but I advice you to leave him alone. You do not know how crazy this "adult" is or what else goes on in his life. For a grown person to act this way signifies he has some emotional/mental problems. Just ignore him. As for your friend who was getting bullied he should also ignore it, move away from it.. do anything to keep from giving the bully more attention and more amo. People like this LOVE DRAMA so play down everything. Good luck! Some things are just not worth the time and energy.

Is tinting headlights and taillights illegal in NSW Australia?

I want to tint my headlights and/or taillights on my Hyundai Excel to make it look remotely good but I was told that it could be illegal, The RTA is closed at the moment so I just want a answer on yahoo. Im probably going to use Night Shade but dont mind buying the plastic if it comes to that. Also someone said that it could be to the level of the tinting and if this is so what amount can I tint it to?

I'm a lesbian, Will my relationship with this straight girl work out?

Sorry, I believe she's experimenting and I think she is straight. I had a friend like you, she got dumped after a year of 'dating' a straight girl, that girl had her fun and returned to men. If you are ok with a short term fling, then go for it just don't put too much heart into that. You sound like a great gal and even though your question seems long, you are clear about the situation and this showed that you are still rational. Just know what you are doing, don't get burned. Can't turn a straight girl gay pal, always go for a gay girl, there are loads out there. ;)

Bad day today?? Please answer?

not that bad, i know people that eat more than that and just sit on the couch all day. you should pick up skate boarding that's a good work out

What to get my 12 year old friend for her b-day? ?

Hey my friend is turning 12 and I'm trying 14 I'm an 8th grader and she's a 7th were really popular at school were kinda plastics and all we were ia HOLISTER and Areopostal and justice but I don't no what to by her and it's a pool party with CUTE BOYZ. Shoul I buy her a shirt jacket swim sutte what?Help I wanna be a good FRIend

Is jif peanut butter to-go good?

i saw at walmart jif to go and they come in little plastic containers with about 220 cals and 22g of fat per each one is this healthy considering its peanut butter witch has healthy fats. i was thinking about taking them on a trip this summer for traveling